Stage 1: Unconscious Incompetence

Today let's talk about the first stage anyone goes through when they are looking to make a change:

UNCONSCIOUS INCOMPETENCE

Sounds very negative, doesn't it ... but, in the context of complaining, it really means we are unaware how much we actually complain.  In fact, if you ask most people if they complain a lot, the answer will likely be "No!"  That said, we are more likely to notice people around us who are complaining. 

Here's the revelation ...

If you feel you are surrounded by complainers, take the challenge and invite your complaining friends to do it as well.  I'm betting the first thing you discover is you complain a lot more than you realize. That's  what unconscious incompetence is all about..

By the way Day 2 is easier the second time around!